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    September 08

    所谓阿姨

          小时候,打从开始说话,就不断地叫人“阿姨”了。
          然后从某一天开始,自己也被小朋友称为“阿姨”,那个时候,应该是觉得高兴吧,因为辈份长了嘛。
          工作后的一天,去市场买东西,被卖菜的称为“阿姨”,那菜贩子可看着比我岁数大耶。我心里顿时一惊:难道,我看起来真的有那么老吗?
          后来跟本地的同事说起,他们告诉我,这算是一种尊称。听得此言,我心里才算释然。
          上个星期,去香港赶一特卖场。买单的时候,结帐的小伙子大约二十多岁,也喊我:“阿姨”。我知道香港人通常对女性,无论年龄大小,都是称“小姐”的。
          于是,心里忍不住地感慨,逝者如斯夫也。。。。

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    晶 聂wrote:
    所以我很乖,一直都叫戎姐,话说回来,也有很多人叫偶阿姨了,........
    Sept. 16
    Rwrote:
    呵呵,Julie答辩什么时候开始?
    要为现在的阿姨,将来的奶奶外婆干上一杯哈。。。。。
    Sept. 9
    light sunwrote:
    呵呵,是那么回事。
    不过,到我这个年龄叫我什么都无所谓了,阿姨和奶奶随便啦~
    Sept. 9
    Juliewrote:
    地道的我们这个年纪女人的尴尬心理么。
    你还好么,才被叫阿姨。我早几年就被人这样叫了。那时有时去一家中国店买东西, 一来二去的与收银的女孩混个脸熟, 后来聊起来我们还是老乡,知道她那年夏天就要回国结婚了。后来又给她过一些关于找工作的信息。女孩很感激,于是。。。。有一天买完东西,人家咣当来一句,阿姨慢走啊!我倒!我真的愣了一下,才反应过来人家是在跟我再见!出了门跟老公抱怨:我还不到38,至于就给26岁的人当阿姨吗!这孩子,真不会说话!不得不说老公还是蛮了解俺的小心眼的,大笑之余,除了再次提醒我要正视自己的年龄以及黄脸婆的事实外,指出了几个关键点:1,人家那是尊重你。2, 人家又不知道你到底多大,看你领着那么大个儿子,自然就会把你归到上一辈人那里去的么。你看看老公转弯抹角地就把俺的自信心给恢复了。。。就一丁点啊。。。
    后来与大学好友聊起此事,她也同感,她们几个在北京的同学有时聚会去吃饭,出来进去也被人喊阿姨的,也是心理不平衡。尤其是跟同学在一起的时候总觉得自己还是十八,九岁一样。。。
    还有啊,有一次宝宝一岁多的时候抱她去shopping,一中国大嫂问我是不是孩子姥姥, 瞧,我这已经进化到祖母级别了!
    Sept. 9
    Rwrote:
    是坑就必然要填嘛,给俺点儿时间萨。。。。
    Sept. 9
    林子wrote:
    又一坑???
    Sept. 8

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